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Originally Posted by PaphMadMan
In my experience the biggest problem with orchid societies (and most other clubs etc., perhaps civilization in general) is long term members who no longer contribute much but ruthlessly criticize all efforts by those who do. If no one is coming up with new ideas it is because they have already been shot down too often. Praise those who make an effort, and tell all others to shut up. That's really all most groups need to thrive.
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Except for telling them all to shut up, I'd have to agree.
It's very frustrating when the newer members make great suggestions to help the club move forward but nothing gets done because the "older" (and I don't mean age, I mean how long they've been in the club) folks say NO and it's done
I left one club because of my frustration with this but have much higher hopes for the club I joined a few months ago. I've spoken to lots of folks and it seems that this is a problem for any club, no matter the subject.
I've found that the things I'm impressed with in the new club are: the meetings are organized with an itinerary that is followed to the letter rather than one that is disorganized. When we went to the first meeting as a guest we were given a welcome packet explaining what to expect and what needs to be done as a member. There are wonderful speakers each month with an actual presentation from which we LEARN things and not just slide shows of pretty orchids.
Just try to enjoy the experience and not allow people and their quirks get you frustrated. Once you're not enjoying it anymore, it really sucks the life out of you
