What a shame to give up so darn quickly, when you were so excited about this plant in the beginning. I think you are making a huge mistake, and part of this project is to grow things that we wouldn't try to grow otherwise. I can understand giving up on it after a while but not after a few weeks! There's more to orchids than Phals and Paphs you know! And always space for a little cutie like cernua. You can grow it, I know you can.
__________________ Camille
Completely orchid obsessed and loving every minute of it....