I'm a caregiver to my mother who is on hospice. This has been the most stressfull, the most lonely, the most frustrating time in my life and the ONLY reason I mention this is because, sometimes, the only outlet I have is in tending to my orchids and I welcome it gladly, almost begging-ly sometimes! I'm stuck in the house a lot, especially after the aides have gone for the day and there are times when I can't stand being in the house and I want to runnnnnnnnnn but, I can't. I sometimes find myself stopping everything and going into my orchid room (a screened patio devoted to my couple of hundred orchids) and just getting lost in something or other to do with their care. Sometimes, I'm out there until 1:00 a.m. I let go when I'm out there with them. It's saved me, more times than I can count from losing it! It's been the best stress reliever I've found.

...that and when a friend comes to steal me for a few hours and dinner on the beach is on the menu.
